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Thursday, February 28, 2019

Couples Who Frequently Fight Are Most Likely In Love With Each Other


Studies have shown fighting makes for a healthy relationship because it reflects maturity, openness and oftentimes results to a more passionate kiss-and-make-up thingy.

Years ago, Minnesota-based Star Tribune published a report about a survey stating that 44% of married couples believe fighting more than once a week makes for productive relationships.


Studies have shown fighting makes for a healthy relationship because it reflects maturity, openness and oftentimes results to a more passionate kiss-and-make-up thingy.    Years ago, Minnesota-based Star Tribune published a report about a survey stating that 44% of married couples believe fighting more than once a week makes for productive relationships.        Ads    The study holds true to these days, though, and a portal on good reads about anything from relationships to curiosities.  Fighting reveals passion. Some couples really enjoy intense arguments because doing so increase their hormone levels, the published article said. Subconsciously, those people know that fighting is just a sign of their passion, and their disagreement will end up being an even more passionate makeup. Just don’t forget to finish any argument in a positive way.  Fighting is a sign of a mature relationship. Constant conflict avoidance is definitely not the best way to build a long-lasting relationship, psychologists would agree.  “Mature people don’t resort to personal attacks or yelling either. Instead, they always try to reach a compromise and improve their relationship with the help of a healthy argument,” the portal said.  Fighting means you care. This may sound cheesy, even borderline masochistic but you may look the other way on your partner’s insane habits or fight it out, withstand all the pain and discomfort of doing so because it’s an expression of your true love. In other words, arguing means that you’re more committed.  Fighting is a sign of a healthy relationship. Psychologists, among them, Dr. Stephanie A. Sarkis, say there are seven key points to a healthy and happy relationship, and arguing is one of them. In fact, if a couple never argues, this may be a sign that something isn’t quite right with them, they say.  “Arguing helps couples reconsider their values and feelings by addressing and discussing the things that are important to them. However, your argument should be healthy and non-combative — always try to state your points without name-calling or raising your voice.  Fighting makes your connection stronger. It’s definitely not about who wins an argument as it is more about learning from it.  Fighting relieves your resentment. You go the extra mile to show your love, right? What happens if it’s not reciprocated? You feel resentment. What you should do is let your negative feelings out and show your partner that you’re both equals with your own needs. Keeping your resentment inside is dangerous to the relationship.

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The study holds true to these days, though, and a portal on good reads about anything from relationships to curiosities.

Fighting reveals passion.
Some couples really enjoy intense arguments because doing so increase their hormone levels, the published article said. Subconsciously, those people know that fighting is just a sign of their passion, and their disagreement will end up being an even more passionate makeup. Just don’t forget to finish any argument in a positive way.

Fighting is a sign of a mature relationship.
Constant conflict avoidance is definitely not the best way to build a long-lasting relationship, psychologists would agree.

“Mature people don’t resort to personal attacks or yelling either. Instead, they always try to reach a compromise and improve their relationship with the help of a healthy argument,” the portal said.

Fighting means you care.
This may sound cheesy, even borderline masochistic but you may look the other way on your partner’s insane habits or fight it out, withstand all the pain and discomfort of doing so because it’s an expression of your true love.
In other words, arguing means that you’re more committed.

Fighting is a sign of a healthy relationship.
Psychologists, among them, Dr. Stephanie A. Sarkis, say there are seven key points to a healthy and happy relationship, and arguing is one of them. In fact, if a couple never argues, this may be a sign that something isn’t quite right with them, they say.

“Arguing helps couples reconsider their values and feelings by addressing and discussing the things that are important to them. However, your argument should be healthy and non-combative — always try to state your points without name-calling or raising your voice.

Fighting makes your connection stronger.
It’s definitely not about who wins an argument as it is more about learning from it.

Fighting relieves your resentment.
You go the extra mile to show your love, right? What happens if it’s not reciprocated? You feel resentment. What you should do is let your negative feelings out and show your partner that you’re both equals with your own needs. Keeping your resentment inside is dangerous to the relationship.
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In the real world, availing loans is sometimes inevitable. Financial problems often come unannounced and if you do not have enough savings, you most probably end up getting a loan from a friend, a loan company or a bank. Many overseas Filipino workers (OFW), for example, avail loans specifically designed for people working abroad and seafarers.   https://www.jbsolis.com/2019/02/move-to-these-places-and-get-paid-if.html    Ads    In the society we live in, applying for a loan correlates to debt. In reality, loans actually help people build and establish a credit history to which banking and finance companies refer.   In applying for a loan, whether from a loan company or from a bank, having a good credit history helps you to be approved quickly.    However, there are many types of loans designed for specific needs. Terms and conditions in each type are also different.  In this article, we will break down for you the types of loans and help you decide which ones do you need.   OFW loan – OFW loans work similarly as personal loans but are specifically offered to overseas Filipino workers with valid contracts. A co-borrower or immediate relative based in the Philippines is required. It usually has flexible payment terms to accommodate the specific needs of OFWs and their families.   Personal loan – Personal loans are usually unsecured loans, which means it’s based purely on an individual’s credit score and does not require any collateral, unlike secured loans. The interest rates may range from 1.2 percent to 8 percent, depending on the financial institution. Payment terms are typically shorter, from six to 60 months.  Car loan – Car loans are for people who don’t have enough cash to shoulder the full purchase of a vehicle. It has flexible payment terms of three to five years. To apply for a car loan, simply submit valid IDs and proof of income to get pre-approved. It may be required to have the down payment for the car to get approved.  Business loan – Business loans can be used for a new business or the expansion of an existing one. Examples are line credit, equipment loan, and conventional business loan. Terms depend on the nature of the business and the agreement between the borrower and the lender.  Home loan – Housing loan interest rates are decided between the borrower and the financial institution, with payment terms ranging from five to 30 years. The lender maintains property rights as collateral, and an appraisal fee typically applies.  Credit cards or cash advances – Cash advances are short-term loans with higher interest rates and are typically paid for the following month. Some credit card companies offer longer terms, from three to 12 months. The amount a person can borrow depends on their credit limit.
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Wednesday, October 24, 2018

WATCH: OFW Left Husband and 4 Children For A Lesbian



A broken family is not a new scenario nowadays. Most of the times, it is the husband or the father that leaves his wife and children to start a new life. But what's more heartbreaking is if the mother is the one that decided to left her family.  This is the situation of Abelardo Galzote, a husband of an Overseas Filipino Worker (OFW) named Roselia, whom they have four children. Together with his mother-in-law and kids, Abelardo pleads for help in "Raffy Tulfo in Action" to contact his OFW wife.  According to Abelardo, his wife chose to live with the lesbian instead of going home to him and their kids when she returned to the Philippines recently.   Abelardo said that his last contact with his wife, while she was on Saudi Arabia, was on August. And accordingly, Ronelia returned to the Philippines and live with the lesbian lover that she only knows through Facebook.  On the second part of the program, Ronelia faced his husband and children and deny that there is something going on between her and the lesbian. She said the lesbian is only a friend that fetched her in the airport and gave her a job. The OFW also explains that her employer abroad confiscated her cell phone, the reason behind why she did not contact her family back home.   When asked if she wants to go home, the OFW refused and said that she doesn't have any plan to reconcile with his husband Abelardo because the latter cannot provide for them. After a few minutes of persuasion, the OFW agreed to go back with her family.   It was later found out that when they return to Ilocos, Roselia left his husband and four children with no words. According to one of their children, their mom constantly talks to someone in cellphone and one day, she left them. Now they have to continue their lives without the presence of their mother.

A broken family is not a new scenario nowadays. Most of the times, it is the husband or the father that leaves his wife and children to start a new life. But what's more heartbreaking is if the mother is the one that decided to left her family. 

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This is the situation of Abelardo Galzote, a husband of an Overseas Filipino Worker (OFW) named Roselia, whom they have four children. Together with his mother-in-law and kids, Abelardo pleads for help in "Raffy Tulfo in Action" to contact his OFW wife. According to Abelardo, his wife chose to live with the lesbian instead of going home to him and their kids when she returned to the Philippines recently.


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Abelardo said that his last contact with his wife, while she was on Saudi Arabia, was on August. And accordingly, Ronelia returned to the Philippines and live with the lesbian lover that she only knows through Facebook.






On the second part of the program, Ronelia faced his husband and children and deny that there is something going on between her and the lesbian. She said the lesbian is only a friend that fetched her in the airport and gave her a job. 


The OFW also explains that her employer abroad confiscated her cell phone, the reason behind why she did not contact her family back home.

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When asked if she wants to go home, the OFW refused and said that she doesn't have any plan to reconcile with his husband Abelardo because the latter cannot provide for them. After a few minutes of persuasion, the OFW agreed to go back with her family. 

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It was later found out that when they return to Ilocos, Roselia left his husband and four children with no words. According to one of their children, their mom constantly talks to someone in cellphone and one day, she left them. Now they have to continue their lives without the presence of their mother.


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