A broken family is not a new scenario nowadays. Most of the times, it is the husband or the father that leaves his wife and children to start a new life. But what's more heartbreaking is if the mother is the one that decided to left her family.
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This is the situation of Abelardo Galzote, a husband of an Overseas Filipino Worker (OFW) named Roselia, whom they have four children. Together with his mother-in-law and kids, Abelardo pleads for help in "Raffy Tulfo in Action" to contact his OFW wife. According to Abelardo, his wife chose to live with the lesbian instead of going home to him and their kids when she returned to the Philippines recently.
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Abelardo said that his last contact with his wife, while she was on Saudi Arabia, was on August. And accordingly, Ronelia returned to the Philippines and live with the lesbian lover that she only knows through Facebook.
On the second part of the program, Ronelia faced his husband and children and deny that there is something going on between her and the lesbian. She said the lesbian is only a friend that fetched her in the airport and gave her a job.
The OFW also explains that her employer abroad confiscated her cell phone, the reason behind why she did not contact her family back home.
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It was later found out that when they return to Ilocos, Roselia left his husband and four children with no words. According to one of their children, their mom constantly talks to someone in cellphone and one day, she left them. Now they have to continue their lives without the presence of their mother.
This article is filed under Filipino workers, hiring Filipino workers, Filipina maids, family and relationships and Philippine news.
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