Mathematics of Heaven

As I mention before I am on vacation but I prefer to just stay in the Kingdom without going home to the Philippines since my growing family is here. So it's not actually a vacation, but maybe a little break from work so I will miss my cultured bacteria's in the microbiology and the lab. Actually, I feel so pampered by the never tiring cookings and bakings of my dear Mrs. Thoughtskoto, kaya sulit na sulit. hehe

Anyways, I just wanted to share this quick kasi baby sitter ako ngayon while my wife is busy at the kitchen.

It has been said that the mathematics of heaven are:

LOVE THAT IS SHARED WILL NEVER EVER BE LOVE DIVIDED.

LOVE THAT IS SHARED WILL ALWAYS BE LOVE MULTIPLIED.

Di ako magaling sa mathematics kaya kayo na bahala mag-isip ano ibig sabihin. nyehehe.

See you guys!

©2009 THOUGHTSKOTO

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39 Natural Highs

Think about them one at a time BEFORE going on to the next one...
IT DOES MAKE YOU FEEL GOOD, especially the thought at the end.

1. Falling in love.
   
2. Laughing so hard your face hurts or your eyes got wet
   
3. A hot shower in winter or cold shower in summer.
   
4. No long lines at the supermarket
   
5. A special glance from you or to you from a wholesome stranger.
   
6. Getting mail, email, or text message from a special or long lost friend
   
7. Hearing your favorite song on the radio.
   
8. Lying in bed listening to the rain outside.
   
9. Finding the sweater you want is on sale for half price.
   
10. A long distance phone call.
    
11. A bubble bath.
    
12. Giggling.
    
13. A good conversation.
    
14. The beach
    
15. Finding a 50SR note in your jacket from last winter.
    
16. Laughing at your very self.
    
17. Midnight phone calls that last for hours.
    
18. Having someone tell you that you're beautiful or handsome.
    
19. Laughing at an inside joke.
    
20. Memories of elementary or high school friends.
    
21. Accidentally overhearing someone say something nice about you.
    
22. Waking up and realizing you still have a few hours left to sleep.
    
23. Your first kiss (either the very first or with a new partner)
    
24. Making new friends or spending time with old ones.
    
25. Playing with a new baby/puppy/kitty.
    
26. Having someone play with your hair.
    
27. Sweet dreams.
    
28. Going to a really good concert.
    
29. Making eye contact with a cute stranger
    
30. Winning a really competitive game/blog poll.
    
31. Spending time with close friends.
    
32. Seeing smiles and hearing laughter from your friends.
    
33. Holding hands with someone, you really care about.
    
34. Running into an old friend and realizing that some things (good or bad) never change
    
35. Watching the expression on someone's face as he/she open a much-desired present from you.
    
36. Watching the sunrise/sunset. 
    
37. Dancing.
38. Playing with the baby.
39. Getting out of bed every morning and being grateful for another beautiful day.
    

Friends are quiet angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly. truly the best things in life are the free stuffs. 

©2009 THOUGHTSKOTO

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CHECK YOUR LOVE ATTITUDE

Laugh Like You Have Never Cried. Play Like You Have Never Lost. 

Love Like You Have Never Been Hurt. Live Like There Is No Tomorrow.

Quote and Photo from skdiesel

I am on a 15 days vacation, so expect me to be a little lazy in thinking and blogging but instead do some cut-and-paste inspirational stuffs. But since its February, needless to say, but a month of love, buwan ng mga puso, and I am sure Engr. NJ of Desert Aquaforce will again complain about this love blog, but if only I know he's tickled by this too. nyehehe, peace NJ!

Check your LOVE attitude...

To find your love attitude number, add your birth month and your birthdate together. 

Keep reducing it until it's a single digit.

Example: 

January 28         1+28 = 29           2+9 = 11            1+1 = 2;          

Your love attitude number is 2.

Mine is November 27, 11+27=38    3+8=11    1+1 = 2 

which I think fits the description perfectly.

If your number is:

One

You are charming imaginative and independent. Usually your style is 

ahead of others; you know what's in and what's way out. Sometimes you're 

a little too aggressive when it comes to pursuing a love interest. You 

have a way of drawing attention wherever you go, and this dramatic flair 

usually attracts the strongest ones. Your competitive nature either 

draws or repels guys/gals...but those who can't handle your power aren't 

your type anyway. At times you can be possessive, manipulating and 

demanding with your friends and in love relationships. You like 

guys/gals with lots of intelligence... and knock-'em-dead good looks 

don't hurt either.

Two

Your love nature is sentimental, romantic and kind. Your easygoing, 

mild manner allows almost everyone to feel very comfortable with you - 

especially shy guys/gals. Your modesty and tact enable you to get along 

easily with both sexes. You are a natural peacemaker and can be very 

persuasive with words, which helps you to gain the respect of your 

classmates/associates. You can also be too sensitive at times, and your greatest 

drawback is a lack of confidence to stand up for yourself in conflict. 

Your favorite type of girl is a gentle, affectionate one who is also 

strong and playful. A great sense of humor is also a must. A guy/gal who 

loves to listen to music and dance should rank high on your list of 

favorites, too.

Three

You are imaginative, fun-loving, thrill-seeking and expressive. You're 

so charming that you attract many friends and you are almost never 

lacking guys/gals. In your earlier years, you may be totally shy and 

self-conscious, but you'll lose those qualities in the high-school 

years. You can be sort of vain or even a bit of a show-off when you get 

caught up in exciting events in your life, but you usually redeem 

yourself in some playful way before you lose a friend. Jealousy shows 

its ugly head sometimes, but generally you aren't affected by it unless 

your guy/gal tries to provoke it. In the guy/gal department, you prefer 

the athletic or artistic types. You're in absolute heaven when you find 

both of those qualities in the same guy/gal. When you're looking for 

love, a guy/gal who can make you laugh scores points, big time!

Four

You tend to be loyal, dedicated and good hearted. You're one of the 

most diligent students when you really try, and you tend to make your 

schoolwork a priority. You also express those same qualities in your 

love relationship. No one is more faithful and trusting than you. In 

fact, those tendencies can be a little negative in your romantic life. 

You may sometimes hang on too long to a guy/gal who doesn't give you the 

respect and love you deserve. You can be stubborn and a bit of a 

troublemaker if the mood strikes you but you can usually dig yourself 

out of that hole just in time to stay out of major trouble. You usually 

fall for extremes when choosing a love mate - he/she may be a show-off 

or a teacher's pet. Whatever the type, it helps if he/she is 

good-looking, too, but that's not a major consideration for you.

Five

Your love attitude is adventurous, charismatic and spontaneous. You're 

creative and adaptable, and you can come up with the most exciting and 

sometimes daring things to do. Your quick intelligence and way with 

words help get you out of the problems that come with being flirtatious 

and playing hard to get. You need to pay close attention to your 

personal values because you love to try new and different things and 

easily go along with the crowd and the consequences can put extra strain 

on your relationship with a boy/girl. You like guys/gals who have great 

bodies and good looks, along with exceptional brain and high grades. It 

helps if they are highly athletic or involved in as many activities as 

you, otherwise you might get bored! Variety is the key to your love 

attitude number.

Six

You are warm, loving, devoted and affectionate. Your outgoing, 

thoughtful nature attracts many girlfriends/boyfriends to you, and 

usually some of the nicest guys/gals too. Because of your need to care, 

you can end up in a relationship that requires too much care-taking to 

make it balanced. Since home and family play important roles in your 

life, you are unlikely to be attracted to guys/gals who your parents 

wouldn't like. Sometimes you have a slight jealous streak... but it 

doesn't last long. Some people with this love attitude number are prone 

to making harsh judgments of others, especially when others don't share 

your set of values. You are especially attracted to the good looking, 

boy/girl-next-door type who is smart as well as a gentle man/woman.

Seven

Your love nature is thoughtful, poetic, mystical and mysterious. A few 

people with love attitude number seven are class clowns, and they 

usually attract guys/gals who like to be given a hard time. But most of 

you are the quiet, reserved types who dislike calling attention to 

yourself. Your type generally attracts guys who feel the same way you 

do. Your refined, independent and secretive nature is very alluring to 

certain guys/gals. At times you can also be somewhat fault-finding and a 

little demanding in your love relationship and with friends. You are 

mostly attracted to guys/gals who aren't like all the rest; a loner 

easily attracts you. And, if he/she reads a lot and enjoys learning, 

he/she is especially perfect for you.

Eight

Your love attitude is confident, powerful and exciting. This number 

usually makes for a very conscientious student, someone who puts 

schoolwork ahead of a social life. However, you also enjoy being a 

leader among your classmates and will seek offices or other positions 

that enable you to use your leadership skills. Because of this, you can 

be somewhat intimidating to certain guys/gals. You can also be a little 

too intense, bossy and jealous for your own good. Your love match is 

definitely someone who is smart, handsome and popular. You like quality 

over quantity and will usually wait until the guy/gal with the best 

attributes comes along.

Nine

You have a sophisticated attitude that is also generous and 

considerate. Your responsible, charitable nature may find you attracting 

guys/gals who want someone to confide in or who makes them feel secure. 

At a very young age, you developed the type of personality that makes 

others feel safe and protected. You will carry these qualities into your 

adult years and, down the road, you'll be a good mom/dad because of 

them. On the negative side, you can be argumentative and overly 

emotional, and you usually possess a temper that can make everyone run 

for cover. You like the kind of guy/gal who is responsible and 

impeccably dressed and has gorgeous eyes and a great body. Charm, wit 

and (of course) brilliance could make him the perfect guy/gal for you.

Hope you enjoy this and please tell us what's your number at the comment below.

©2009 THOUGHTSKOTO

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Maalaala Mo Kaya...Berta

{(Another thing, although I don't expect too much from this award thing, this blog, THOUGHTSKOTO, was nominated as one of the candidates for the Filipino Blog of the Week at THE COMPOSED GENTLEMAN BLOG) If you are kind enough, please vote for this blog cause no one might...nyehaha. It will be embarrassing to receive none. :-)}

Dear Ate Charo,

 Thank you for considering this letter of mine. I'm writing about Ben.
 We're in our twenties and both work in Makati. In fact, we used to be
  officemates. I've known him for almost two years and all the time, I've
  been in-love with him, although we are just friends and he has a
  girlfriend
  he intends to marry.
 
  Ate Charo, I can't help but fall in love with him. He's perfect! He's
  responsible, intelligent, resourceful, thoughtful, loving, sweet, caring,
  upright, kind, family-oriented, and a God-fearing individual. His good
  looks are just an added bonus. I can't believe such a man still exists
  today and I will forever be thankful for his friendship.

It is a pain to be so in-love with him because he and his girlfriend are
  perfect for each other and are so happy being together. I don't know if
  he's aware of my feelings for him, but winning his heart, I think, is out
  of the question. His girlfriend is too precious for him. Losing her
  would
  truly hurt him, and I don't want to see him in pain. I know,
  however, that a part of me wishes he would reciprocate my love, but he's
  just too good for me. He deserves someone better, like the girl he has
  now.
 
  Knowing he's happy with her is enough consolation for me. I want his
  happiness even if it would mean my own despair. God knows how much I'm
  suffering. Writing this letter alone is already a torture. I've been
  trying very hard to forget him. I've done ways I know to free myself.
  Pero ang kulit talaga ng puso ko, ayaw sumunod. Ate Charo, I haven't seen
  or talked with him for a long time and I thought his absence would somehow
  cool down the feeling, but it hasn't. I don't want to miss him, but I do
  miss him terribly. How can I forget him?

Whenever I see a place, a thing, or a situation, my mind automatically
  associates it with him. His memories occupy most of my waking and
  sleeping
  hours. His face pops into my mind in the middle of my lunch, when I'm
  talking with my friends, cleaning my house, or just doing something which
  has nothing to remind me of him. Odd, but true. I'm not bitter, Ate. I
  don't blame myself, him, nor God for this situation. As a matter of fact,
  I'm thankful. Painfully odd as it is, this situation has made me the
  mature
  person I am now. But I can't help ask myself why should someone fall for

  another when they are not meant for each other? 

Why Ate Charo? 

Why? 

You know Ate, whenever I pray, I always ask God to help me let go of this
  love. I just want to feel the same way he feels for me... as a friend
  and
  nothing more. I know I can get through this because I believe that God
  wouldn't give me something He knows I couldn't handle. Someday I will be
  able to smile again without being hurt when I remember him. God has His
  reason for all of these and until I know the reasons, I want to hear words
  from you. Attached is my picture to show my sincerity and let you decide
  if
  am really not meant for his love.
 
  Please Ate Charo, help me.
 
  Sincerely,

Berta Plak

This was emailed to me by a friend. This is just for fun, although the Thoughtskoto family doesn't subscribe to the idea of making fun with other looks or circumstances. 

(Another thing, although I don't expect too much from this award thing, this blog, THOUGHTSKOTO, was nominated as one of the candidates for the Filipino Blog of the Week at THE COMPOSED GENTLEMAN BLOG)

If you are kind enough, please vote for this blog cause no one might...nyehaha. It will be embarrassing to receive none. :-)

 ©2009 THOUGHTSKOTO

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Life Changing Moments

October 2001, nasa MRT ako, kagagaling ko lang sa pressure na trabaho, maraming phone calls, maraming projects, maraming worries. Galing ako ng North Edsa station papuntang Taft Pasay, and from there take the LRT to Pedro Gil para imemeet ang may-ari ng company namin na noon ay nakacheck in Midtown Hotel, near Robinson's Ermita.

Magulo ang isip ko, mainit pala, dati na magulo. hehe. Hawak hawak ko ang Philippine Daily Inquirer gawa ng pagsunod sa news about sa 9-11 na nangyari sa America. Nakaupo ako't nakapikit ang mata at nagrelax ng huminto ang train sa Boni station. Biglang napuno ang area kung saan ako nakaupo, may isang nanay at tatlong mga anak ages between 7, 5, 3 na pumasok at dahil likas na gentleman, sa dami ng mga gentle dog sa loob ng station na nakamake-up at nakapowder pa ang mga mukha at gagala sa greenbelt at ayala, ako'y tumayo at pinapaupo ang mag-ina. 

Ang mga bata ay makukulit, maiingay at sa sikip ng MRT ay nakuha pang maglaro, maghabulan, at magsisisigaw. Ang nakapgtataka ang ina ay tila walang pakialam. Di ba niya naririnig na ang mga bata ay maiingay? Di ba siya nahihiya sa inaasta ng kanyang mga anak? Nanay ko po, nakakabulahaw ang tili, iyakan at sigawan, at nakakawala sa matinong pag-iisip ang habulan, at muntik pa akong masundot ng lalaking panganay. Gusto kong pasimpleng pingutin or pinch sa kamay yung pangalawa na walang pakialam nakatayo ako sa tapat ng kanyang nanay habang sia ay punta dito't balik sa nanay niya ng walang pakialam. 

Di ako nakapagpigil, sinabihan ko ang nanay. 

"Ale, yung mga anak niyo po, ang iingay, nakakabulahaw po sa mga pasahero, pwede po bang patahimikin niyo?"

Parang walang narinig ang nanay, nakatingin sa malayo, at parang walang pakialam. Kaya inulit ko ng medyo malakas sa gitna ng maraming pasahero.

"Ah, Ate, yung mga anak niyo po, sobrang ingay at makulit, pwede po bang sawayin niyo?"

Sagot ng nanay na biglang gulat at napatingin saken, at dun ko lang napansin ang namumugto niyang mga mata.

"Ha? Mama, pagpasensiyahan niyo na po, kagagaling lang namin ng Polymedic Hospital, at kamamatay lang po ng kanilang ama. (Humahagulgol na ng iyak ang nanay, ako naman parang binuhusan ng nagyeyelong tubig) Di ko alam ang gagawin, at di ko alam paano ko sasabihin sa kanila"

Di ko alam ang nangyari saken during that time pero bigla akong nanlamig. Naawa sa nanay, nahiya sa aking sarili, at nakalearn ng isang napakahalagang lesson. 

Be sensitive towards others feelings.

Sometimes in our lives we are focused on what we want and what will comfort us, without regard or without thinking about others. Naiingayan ako, and Im sure yung ibang pasahero din pero ako lang naglaks ng loob magsabi dahil seguro ako lang ang hindi naging sensitive na ang nanay pala ay nagdadalamhati.

Nakakahiya.

Bago ako bumaba ng Taft Avenue, nalaman ko na ang nanay ay taga Cavite, ang asawa ay nagkasakit ng cancer sa brain, at nagtratrabaho sa may Manggahan sa Gen Trias. 

Nag-abot ako ng isandaan bilang abuloy.

©2009 THOUGHTSKOTO

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Wherever You Are

(The only memento I have of my beloved mother)

She was a graduate of a commerce degree from USA. No, not the US of A, but the University of San Agustin in Iloilo. He was a graduate of Mechanical Engineering in the same university. They met, they fall in love, they married, and they live happily...at least for a time.

She was at the prime of her life as a thriving and yes, versatile woman. But the failures on Dad's life, unemployment, vices and inability to accept the responsibility of rearing his sons plus the pressures of Mom's family eventually ends the relationship between them. We were left to her care. 

Four years had past, she was able to recover and being the beautiful woman she was, and seemingly successful in life, she was haunted by men and guys. She fall in love again, bore another son, and the father is nowhere to be found. Four years again, she thought she learned from many mistakes, she bore the heartaches and pains brought by the terrible afflictions she been through because she thought she was being punished. But she cannot wallow in self-pity, she doesn't want to be miserable forever. She deserved to be happy. She longed to love and be loved. She fall in love to another guy, had relationship, bore her first and only daughter.  But the guy went to Manila and never heard of him since then.

Ito pong mga the stories I heard from her and found out a few hours before she left us, 16 years ago. 

Those were the moments I heard the almost audible in ears na mga words I will never ever forget hearing from a dying mother.

"Please take care of your brothers and sister. Never leave them astray."

She was only 39 suffering from a breast cancer. 

I was 16 years old then. Too young to live a life on my own.

My siblings are 14, 10 and 6. Not knowing what was going on.

Those moments in the hospital while she was breathing with the help of oxygen and other apparatus, and while she was holding my hands firmly that I instill upon my young mind the promise to be a good husband to my wife and a good father to my kids.

I've seen hardships and tribulations in my life. 

I've heard many cries and wails out of pain and broken hearts.

I can't do nothing to alleviate or cease all of this but I can start with my own family.

And hope that legacy will live on with my posterity.

It's not easy, no one says it will be. 

But yes, we can.

Today Mom Beth turns 57 years old. 

Wherever you are, I have done my part. 

I live to the promise I gave you.

I haven't seen you come up to the stage for our medals, or walk with us on our marriages, or dine with us in restaurants, or hold your grandson and granddaughters, but wherever you are, I know you are watching and I know, I can feel it, you are happy.

You're the best mother in this world. You want the best for us. 

I always believe that a man can be seen as a caring and loving husband and father by the way he exemplify his love to his mother.

How can a man love a woman if he doesn't learn how to love his mother? There will be exception to this because there are mothers who used or being cruel to their sons or daughters, but generally speaking, any man who love and respect their mothers will simply mean mamahalin nila ang kanilang mga wife kagaya ng pagmamahal or higit pa sa pagmamahal sa magulang. Correct me if I am wrong pero yan po ang naiisip ko, and I've seen it sa ibang tao.

©2009 THOUGHTSKOTO

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And It Came to Pass...

Pinagpaumanhin ko po na hindi po ako binigyan ni Mrs.

 Thoughtskoto ng pahintulot na iblog ang aming text

 conversation nung February 14, 2006. 

Nakasaved po kasi ang mga conversation namin mula nung una kaming nagkaroon ng communication at hanggang sa maging kami at gumawa ng plano sa kasal.

Nandito ako sa Saudi.

Nandun sia sa Pilipinas.

Pero hindi iyun naging hadlang upang maging kami, at upang makapagpasakal kami, este, pakasal kami.

I don't believe when someone says distance in a relationship doesn't work out, flourish or grows.

Almost a year that I've been courting her, until the day we met at Raven in Bataan, until the day we were married, until the day she bore me a daughter, until this very moment, our love is growing, we get to know each other deeper, and i've come to love her more than I thought I could love a woman.

Pero I want to share how it all began.

2004 September, I already saw her in a converging place for the youth we car MIR near Recto, infront of Far Eastern University. But we were never introduce to each other, we don't feel any affection to each other, and I can't even remember her face. Those times, I am courting a girl, F2R, the one mentioned in my previous post.

I went here in Saudi Arabia gawa ng kahirapan ng buhay at bilang panganay sa apat kaming magkakapatid at ulila na. Napag-aral ko rin po sila sa kolehiyo at ngayon, kami'y halos may kanya kanyang buhay na at masaya ako sa kanila.

Late of December 2005 ng sinabi ng kaibigan ko na bibigyan niya ako ng textmate. napilitan lang akong magsabi ng "O0", kasi I've tried many times magkaroon ng textmate pero nauuwi sa wala, nauubos lang ang load ko!

January 2006 nung binigay niya ang name at number nung girl. It took me a week para matext, wala lang, try ko lang din, at parang exciting, hehe.

Ito na mga kasunod na exchanges. I edit Mrs. Thoughtskoto's real name

MR. THOUGHTSKOTO:  Miss Tsinita? Darryl Ce introduced you to me..Just reply to my smart simcard ha, para piso lang for you. ++9216054689… Im Kenji Jb, Valenzuela Stake..RM.. 

MISS TSINITA: Sorry i just read your text this morning. Im working in a call center, what time is it there? 

MR. THOUGHTSKOTO: 3 AM in the morning, 5 hours difference tayo. Wow, so you're good in English pala.

MISS TSINITA: Not really, tinatagalog ko nga mga kausap ko. Hehe joke. Ambergrissolutions. Naku lagot ka, you're breaking the word of wisdom. Sige, tulog ka na. sorry for the late reply. 

MR. THOUGHTSKOTO: oo nga eh. Di me makatulog eh, hanggat di ko nareceive ang reply mo. Seguro now makatulog na ako. Please give me your email address ha.  

(no reply hanggang makatulog na ako)

MISS TSINITA: Gud Am. Ito po email ko misstsinita@gmail.com maya pa 11pm shift ko. Dito ako sa Quezon City. PSBA school ko, fresh graduate, accounting. 

MR. THOUGHTSKOTO: thanks for the email address. Talaga, lahat ng mga accounting na kilala ko magaganda! (bolero ko, pero totoo nga, pansin ko lang ha) Il send an email to you mamaya.  

MISS TSINITA: Talaga? Totoo yan! Grabe, di ako kokontra, kapal ko noh? Hehehe sige reply ako. Promise. 

MR. THOUGHTSKOTO: Medyo mahaba siya but I hope you'll enjoy it. Sige, got to prepare my stuffs na kasi magstart na ako ng work. Thank you ma'am tsinita. 

MISS TSINITA: Cge, Thanks. Ingat sa work…just Tsinita

At ang mga sumunod na text ay puro ko na pambobola at kakornihan. katakot takot na pahirap rin ang aking nadaanan. Pero di ako sumuko, naging persistent ako, kasi maliban sa tumatanda na ako, masyado kong minahal si Mrs. Thoughtskoto na kahit di ko pa sia ganun ka kilala at nakita at nakasama, willing akong magpasakal este pakasal sa kanya. There are times na may mga bagay na mahirap eexplain lalo na about love, pero wala kang magagawa kundi sundin ito. Ang tawag ko po sa kanya LOVEFATE, Love For All Time and Eternity kasi po naniniwala kami na ang aming kasal ay hindi "till death do us part" lamang kundi Magpakailanman Man, Tita Mel Tiangco. hehe

Belated Happy Valentines sau Mrs. Thoughtskoto, my lovefate, labobmylyf! Salamat sa valentine card na bigay mo saken kagabi. tats ato. :-)

Happy Valentines din sa mahal naming Babytots!

Di po kami nakatulog kasi may lagnat po sia, sana gumaling ka na bebi, at kahit kagatin mo pa ang ilong ko lagi kapag lumabas na yang ipin mo sa itaas, mukhang bugs bunny ka na!

©2009 THOUGHTSKOTO

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YANAH: Friend, Ofw, and Kablogs,

ito po ang simula kung bakit tinuturing ko siyang kaibigan... 

at saludo din ako kagaya ng pagsaludo ni

KOSA

~yAnaH~ said...

im sorry but i beg to disagree on this one:
"Naisip ko lang I think yung isang reason na iniiwan ng mga magagandang lalaki ang kanilang mga asawa dahil seguro hindi na ito nagpapaganda, laspag na sa wikang kanto."
 hindi lahat ng mga babaeng iniiwan ng mga asawa nila eh dahil sa losyang na sila. meron lang talagang mga lalaking sadyang tinatamaan ng kagaguhan (sorry for the word) at nagagawang mang-iwan when in fact, sila naman ang nagsimula ng lahat..
 i asked for a loving husband and a lovely family...what did i get?
i got a pocketful of kunsumisyon, quite a handfull of wrinkles plus the fact that "he" left us...
 kaya ngayon, i dont ask anything at all... nadala na ako.. being disappointed and hurt once is already enough...
napahaba... chureee... nacarried away

Mr. Thoughtskoto said...

Yanah, Thank you for the comment.sabi ko "naisip ko lang" now I know na mali din yung naisip ko kasi you experience it talaga. 
 Kahit guy ako, I admit meron talagang mga lalaki na ganun. In fact iniwan din ang nanay ko ng tatay ko 6 years old pa lang ako. 
 But its not over, right? 
 You won't give up because you failed once. Hope is constant. Somewhere out there, sometime, youll find the right one. The one that you're asking...
 hehe, para na ba akong pari...
 But hey thanks for dropping by!

~yAnaH~ said...

magic carpet poh kaya? meron?
kung meron.. pwede po kayang hiramin? pang bukas lang hahaha
 galing galing naman..
i always admired those guys na talagang naglalaan ng time para sa family.. naglalaan ng time in being a father and a husband...

Mr. Thoughtskoto said...

Yanah, Oo nga noh. Magic carpet ni Aladdin. Regarding the dada/hubby thing, thanks. Ill take that as a compliment ha. hehe. I appreciate more people like you who will sacrifice to be away from home, and your loveones esp the kids just for their future. 

sa post na  

~yAnaH~ said...

i dont know why naluha ako dito..
wala akogn ibang masabi kundi yun lang...

 ~yAnaH~ said...

hmmmm u might have to remove me na poh dito sa kablogs list mo, ill be goin home soon.. for good...

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In less than a month na patuloy ko na pagsubaybay ng blog ni Ms. Yanah, nakilala ko sia at naging Kablogs. Marami akong blog na binabasa araw araw, at sa kababasa ko ng mga blog ninyo, pakiramdam at pakiwari ko'y matatalik ko kayong kaibigan. Sa ayaw man ninyo't sa gusto, wala kayong paki kung pingsisiksikan kong maging kaibigan kayo.

May ibang ibig sabihin ang paghanga at pag-iidolo. Ito'y mga bagay na nafefeel mo kung meron kang nagugustuhan o yun na nga, hinahangaan sa isang tao or blogero. Marami akong inaadmire, marami akong iniidolo sa blogosphere, marami akong blog na nababasa't nagbibigay saya at inspiration. 

pero merong mga taong gusto mong maging 

kaibigan, 

kadamay

kaugnay

kapamilya

kapuso

kaibigan.

Since I started the Thoughtskoto and organized the search project for Pinoy Expats/OFW Blog Awards, at masimulan ang aggregating site na KABLOGS

marami akong nakilalang Pinoy na Bloggers sa halos lahat na yata ng mga kontinente ng mundo.

After all yan ang pinakapurpose kung bakit ako nagblog, magkaroon ng maraming kaibigan, 

nevermind the number of visitors visiting their blogs, it doesn't matter to me,

never mind the lay-out and social bookmarking they've been listed,

or the nature of their jobs, or the status of their lives,

it don't care.

Every blog I read, or visited or commented, 

means I am reaching out for friendship.

Thank you to Yanah. You're one of them. 

You're one of the Pinoy Bloggers who in one way or another touches our lives for good.

Yes, we admire you. After your telling of the terrible experiences you been through, 

and after making us laugh or feel sad with your stories, 

making us mad or kilig with your entries,

in less than a month, you left an impression to me and I guess to others too that

YOU ARE INDEED A GREAT MOTHER TO YOUR 'INAKAYS' 

(to borrow your term of kids)

YOU ARE INDEED A REAL AND TRUE FRIEND not just to 

KOSA (oytttttt) and JEN and POGI

but to us, your fellow Kablogs. 

Yung iba, dudugtungan na lang sa mga comment. hehe

Kahit nasa Pinas ka na, magblog ka pa rin, mamimimiss mo rin kami. hehe. I won't delete your site link sa blogsite para maalala ka namin, at masubaybayan ka pa rin namin.

©2008 THOUGHTSKOTO

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